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smackmybitchup - Group: Member - Total Posts: 1295
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Posted on: 06/17/21 12:17PM

Good read, thanks.

I however insist that you're mistaking my vulgar nonchalance with taking stuff personally.
But you're right, I generally have a propensity to not act civilized. lol sorry

That said, spamming my DMs nonstop with "your BF's a cuck simp cuck simp wahh!!" and vicarious threats like "you're gonna get beatdown in the streets!!!!" doesn't really advance any of your points or make you any more civilized.



PietroSoft - Group: Member - Total Posts: 2500
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Posted on: 06/17/21 12:40PM

SadSap said:
And no offense to PietroSoft, but I think that having a bad experience with relationship doesn't mean you should assume romance leads to a high chance of leaving a broken man. I've broken up with girls before, and I've quickly realized it's never the end-all-be-all, no matter how much it hurts.

My dude, its not breaking. Its the cheating. You are young, when i had your age i did go already through a few relationships, and it didnt hurt me a lot. But when you love, you put your trust on someone else and that person betrays you, it can be incredibly hurtful. I have seen men take their life after events like that, i have seen men that never recovered after events like that. I could recover the first time and it took me 2 years to get my mind back, but the next time dealing with cheating. When i did try again, and i put my trust in someone else, and did my best to avoid mistakes... and still got betrayed by a person that have problems keeping their legs closed.... the heartbreak pain, killed a part me. My self protection mode kicked in, and said, okey, having a relationship so far has been bad you, look at you, crying because that person cheated on you with someone else, you tried again and you failed and now your mind is a mess, i will take you away from relationships. And i am now in that stage, my mind is still a mess, i still have episodes in which my mind remembers everything that happened, the pain, what i said, what i found. And still makes me fucking cry. And because i fear that pain, i dont want to deal with relationships anymore. I dont care if the probabilities are low. I dont want to fucking suffer.



smackmybitchup - Group: Member - Total Posts: 1295
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Posted on: 06/17/21 12:42PM

Well that's okay. But don't make it anything other than a "you" issue.

What you've "sEeN" isn't everything. I've been cheated on, as well. Just take any time you need to fix your heart and move on.

Don't let one bad moment or bad experience determine the rest of your life.

Like I said (and that's very important to always keep in mind), repeated failure is mandatory in order to achieve success.

Death will be the only true painkiller. You'll have all the time to sit and do nothing once you're dead. Getting hurt is literally part of the trade of living.



SadSap - Group: Member - Total Posts: 3429
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Posted on: 06/17/21 01:05PM

smackmybitchup said:
That said, spamming my DMs nonstop with "your BF's a cuck simp cuck simp wahh!!"

I think you need more context and accuracy. That was just an attempt to paint me as an asshole.

You messaged me first, you insulted me first, and it was a little back and forth. I was "spamming" no more than you were spamming. I was also sleep-deprived..

I apologize for the crass language, but I stand by what I said. Going by the way how you were acting, and the way you kept bragging on about this boyfriend, that just lead me to assume you were nothing more than a toxic bitch, and your boyfriend was a simp. I don't know how true any of that actually is, nor if it's right to judge someone based on their internet comments, but I personally wouldn't deal with a lover who gets very insultive over small disagreements.

and vicarious threats like "you're gonna get beatdown in the streets!!!!" doesn't really advance any of your points or make you any more civilized.

Quote me correctly. Taking that out of context makes it sound like I wanted you beat you up in the streets.

I was saying that if you were to ever act so damn flippant to a stranger outside of the internet, provoking their anger in such a way, there's a chance they'd knock you flat on your ass. And while physical violence isn't the answer to mere harsh words..... shit.... I'd say you had it coming.



smackmybitchup - Group: Member - Total Posts: 1295
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Posted on: 06/17/21 01:09PM

>instant denial
>"nO u FiRsT"

I didn't insult you first I merely said "sorry for wasting our time now I'll be on my way" and you went full on T-rage

look it's okay if you don't wanna own up your shit lol just don't pretend you want to

I could give you excuses for everything as well, but I don't care even about your excuse for doing it, as just as reciprocally.

inb4 you interpret this^ as abbrasive when it's just merely telling you how shit really is

I wanted you beat you up in the streets.

I wouldn't really put it past you

And while physical violence isn't the answer to mere harsh words..... shit.... I'd say you had it coming.

you're not even fluctuating lol just straight out primitive and testosterone-raging...

what a great lad lol



smackmybitchup - Group: Member - Total Posts: 1295
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"I hOpE u DoN't rEpRoDuCe" like lol jokes on you, you WILL NOT reproduce
Posted on: 06/17/21 01:19PM

I personally wouldn't deal with a lover who gets very insultive over small disagreements.

so who is even dating you? lol It's good that you can understand and describe exactly why you repel women IRL... :P

you say shit like "flipping your shit over a towel on the floor" ... like okay lol it's obvious now where you took that from...

violent boys are dumb LOL go on and be a creep it's ur life in the end




SadSap - Group: Member - Total Posts: 3429
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Posted on: 06/17/21 02:17PM

oh my god



smackmybitchup - Group: Member - Total Posts: 1295
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Posted on: 06/17/21 02:18PM

SadSap said:
oh my god

just hyaku is fine



Assjacket - Group: Member - Total Posts: 1268
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Posted on: 06/17/21 04:50PM

They're... still doing it after 3 days? What a life. 'Obsessed' as they'd say.

I'm still not entirely convinced that it's not an incel sockpuppet LARPing as the dumbest woman they can possibly think of to reinforce the 'look how stupid women are, can you believe they're allowed to vote' belief.



PietroSoft - Group: Member - Total Posts: 2500
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Posted on: 06/17/21 04:54PM

Assjacket said:
They're... still doing it after 3 days? What a life. 'Obsessed' as they'd say.

I'm still not entirely convinced that it's not an incel sockpuppet LARPing as the dumbest woman they can possibly think of to reinforce the 'look how stupid women are, can you believe they're allowed to vote' belief.

Conversation was too intense, i guess.



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