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Posted on: 06/15/21 09:07PM
bro you react so strongly to words like "health". it just says everything
strawman's are so 2015 just stop implying shit no one said or implied just because you're not confident in yourself enough to go out and get a functional life.
just go fix yourself
strawman's are so 2015 just stop implying shit no one said or implied just because you're not confident in yourself enough to go out and get a functional life.
just go fix yourself
Posted on: 06/15/21 09:08PM
smackmybitchup said: just go fix yourself
Okay.
Posted on: 06/15/21 09:09PM
it's OK to have ideals
Posted on: 06/15/21 09:18PM
supremz said:
Relationships can make you or break you, especially when you're a full grown adult.
Relationships can make you or break you, especially when you're a full grown adult.
True. I am so broken in that regard. I had a few relationships that ended when my partner cheated on me, and i am still, years later broken. First i could recover after 2 years, second, i am still damaged. So damaged that i cant just go back to my old self that was appealing for someone to get in love with me. Now i am just a pile of distrust and depression when it comes to relationships, and now i just closed myself to any possibility, because of fear, i fear the heartbreak pain.
smackmybitchup said:
I'm 30
I'm 30
Haha, another one.
Posted on: 06/15/21 09:28PM
supremz said:
Pleasedon'tsayJesuspleasedon'tsayJesuspleasedon- You aren't Catholic, are you?
But the good news is that you can steer them elsewhere by filling your life with other things, and things you are engaged in.
Pleasedon'tsayJesuspleasedon'tsayJesuspleasedon- You aren't Catholic, are you?
What a strange response, but no I am not.
PietroSoft said:
True. I am so broken in that regard. I had a few relationships that ended when my partner cheated on me, and i am still, years later broken. First i could recover after 2 years, second, i am still damaged. So damaged that i cant just go back to my old self that was appealing for someone to get in love with me. Now i am just a pile of distrust and depression when it comes to relationships, and now i just closed myself to any possibility, because of fear, i fear the heartbreak pain.
Haha, another one.
supremz said:
Relationships can make you or break you, especially when you're a full grown adult.
Relationships can make you or break you, especially when you're a full grown adult.
True. I am so broken in that regard. I had a few relationships that ended when my partner cheated on me, and i am still, years later broken. First i could recover after 2 years, second, i am still damaged. So damaged that i cant just go back to my old self that was appealing for someone to get in love with me. Now i am just a pile of distrust and depression when it comes to relationships, and now i just closed myself to any possibility, because of fear, i fear the heartbreak pain.
smackmybitchup said:
I'm 30
I'm 30
Haha, another one.
I'm starting to believe that people under 30 don't visit gelbooru lol.
Assjacket said:
It's 100% about moral high ground. Not to mention, I'd argue that adults should be independent before even considering a relationship, rather than being dependent on someone else for financial, mental, or emotional support. But the sad truth is that many (hell, even most) people are too immature to consider the implications of using "romantic" relationships as a crutch for their own failures by being parasitic to another person- or too self-centered to notice or care.
supremz said:
But if you don't mind me asking, why is using somebody for pleasure and potentially ruining their life as well as your own better than safely and harmlessly doing something that is healthy for every teenager and young adult? What's the net gain besides having the moral high ground? I'm not angry or offended. I seriously don't get it. Sex should be something special between two people who love each other, not just another commodity like fast food and macbooks.
But if you don't mind me asking, why is using somebody for pleasure and potentially ruining their life as well as your own better than safely and harmlessly doing something that is healthy for every teenager and young adult? What's the net gain besides having the moral high ground? I'm not angry or offended. I seriously don't get it. Sex should be something special between two people who love each other, not just another commodity like fast food and macbooks.
It's 100% about moral high ground. Not to mention, I'd argue that adults should be independent before even considering a relationship, rather than being dependent on someone else for financial, mental, or emotional support. But the sad truth is that many (hell, even most) people are too immature to consider the implications of using "romantic" relationships as a crutch for their own failures by being parasitic to another person- or too self-centered to notice or care.
But what if you have an amazing dick and she wants to take care of you so she keeps getting it?
Posted on: 06/15/21 09:40PM
I'm starting to believe that people under 30 don't visit gelbooru lol.
I'm curious to know how you get that out of people like supermz and assjacket
anywho that is incorrect. I first joined when I was 19.
Posted on: 06/15/21 09:46PM
Relationships aren't broken, it's just your world view.
Love isn't something you FIND. You BUILD it.
It's a choice, something you dedicate time and yourself to, commit to. Break ups aren't fated, they happen when will is lost, so it's on YOU.
How you build it is up to you. But nothing ventured, nothing gained.
And don't excuse your unwillingness to try on someone else's failure. Repeated failure is mandatory to attain success, to begin with.
Life never was and will never be perfect. It means struggle. You'll have ALL the time in the world to do nothing when you're dead.
But you're not. So step up.
Love isn't something you FIND. You BUILD it.
It's a choice, something you dedicate time and yourself to, commit to. Break ups aren't fated, they happen when will is lost, so it's on YOU.
How you build it is up to you. But nothing ventured, nothing gained.
And don't excuse your unwillingness to try on someone else's failure. Repeated failure is mandatory to attain success, to begin with.
Life never was and will never be perfect. It means struggle. You'll have ALL the time in the world to do nothing when you're dead.
But you're not. So step up.
Posted on: 06/15/21 10:18PM
smackmybitchup said:
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I am sorry but, i didn't ask for your opinion on this regard. And because it is something important to me, i prefer to not discuss it with you, you give me the impression of a person that loves to antagonize others. Most of your recent interactions with other people here have been negative. I already analyzed my problem and determined what is the best i can do for now.
I was just agreeing with supremz, relationships can in fact break you, i am proof of that. A side of me, is broken because of severe emotional pain. Shit happens, some people are just unlucky.
Posted on: 06/15/21 10:21PM
I am sorry but, i didn't ask for blah
Let's not list EVERY single thing that no one asked for. Because that list would probably include the fact you were born.
Also, opinion? lol You think you're so hot shit, you can't even tell the truth from bullshit when you see it, and you spit on it.
I certainly don't care about care about whether you wanna hear anything or not NOR about your dumb ad hominems. Just don't go on the internet lol
Posted on: 06/15/21 10:23PM
smackmybitchup said:
Let's not list EVERY single thing that no one asked for. Because that list would probably include the fact you were born. Also, opinion? You think you're so hot shit, you can't even tell the truth from bullshit when you see it, and you spit on it.
I don't give a shit if you don't wanna hear anything NOR about your dumb ad hominems. Just don't go on the internet lol
Let's not list EVERY single thing that no one asked for. Because that list would probably include the fact you were born. Also, opinion? You think you're so hot shit, you can't even tell the truth from bullshit when you see it, and you spit on it.
I don't give a shit if you don't wanna hear anything NOR about your dumb ad hominems. Just don't go on the internet lol
See what i told you about negative interactions.
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